Hi,
As I think about what to say, I have no idea what I could possibly tell someone that would convince them to give us their little girl. When I think about what I have to offer, I first think about all of my weaknesses. But I can tell you that I will do my very best at being a mom for your daughter. I cannot begin to understand what you are going through, so I wish you strength and courage as you make this difficult decision.
Sincerely, Rebecca
Doug's Turn:
Dear Birthparent/s:
You are one of the most courageous individuals in the world today. We admire your selfless act of bravery as you consider placing you child into an adoptive family. As potential adoptive parents we are honored to have you learn more about us, and we pray that if prompted, you would consider us as the family that you would let your child be a part of.
Rebecca and I originally met as freshmen in high school, and although we never dated, we were friends and attended common activities until going our separate ways after graduation. For six years we finished degrees, entered careers, and Rebecca got married and had our two oldest boys. At the time of her separation and the passing of my father, we were both brought back to California.
After awhile Rebecca asked me out on our first date. It did not take long for us to become more than friends and we were finally married in 2002. Soon after we married, we began the process for me to adopt Rebecca's two boys. Since then, we have grown in numbers and have a total of five sons.
After our youngest son's birth, Rebecca and I knew that there would be another child in our family. However, her last pregnancy was high risk, and the dangers associated with another pregnancy were too great for her to carry another baby. We knew that we would be adopting, and the idea of welcoming a little girl into our home seemed like a natural way to round out our family. (And she already has five brothers who are anxious to meet their "baby sister").
Rebecca earned a BS degree in psychology which allowed her to get a job as a library associate. She worked at one of our public libraries and was "story time
lady” for several years. She is now a stay at home mom and is very
happy to be where her children need her the most.
I teach high school English which has not only provided for the monetary needs of my family, but has also given me the chance to spend quality time with them. I love being home early in the afternoon and enjoy having common holidays with my children. As I finish up my doctorate degree, our family is anticipating a career change that will allow for greater opportunities.
In my spare time I love being active outside, but mostly I enjoy watching every moment of my children growing up. Our family is blessed to live in a home in a family neighborhood with grandparents only three doors down the street. We enjoy growing pumpkins every summer and were able to raise a 210 pound pumpkin a couple of years ago.
Our thought and prayers are with you in your situation and the courageous decision that lies before you. We hope that you will be at peace with your decision and feel that you are doing what is best for your baby.
Thank you,
Doug, Rebecca and boys
For more information please contact our attorney at:
Center for Family Building
Law Office of Ted R. Youmans
Toll Free: 866-716-1328
Local: 714-855-3345
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